That recipe checks out on the soap calc as nice and plenty hard, and the water is within norm range, although I like to go lower (especially now that I found I can go WAY lower,

) so the only other possibility, if you are sure you measured everything correctly, is that it is the FO, the gel/not gelling, or the mold. SO, do you make sure it gels? I find that my non gelled soap must stay in the mold longer, and that my silicone mold soap, even when gelled, must stay in the mold longer. So....if you are sure it gels, then that leaves the FO or the mold as the culprit. Since I havent seen a FO that affects the hardness when used in proper proportion, I would say it must be the mold, but as for the why of that, I am at a loss!
Maybe someone else has this mold and can say if they have experienced an issue with it or not.
And BTW, welcome to the forum!