I wanted to come back and update this thread for any soapers in the MD, DE, Southern NJ, and Southern PA area.
After several referals and dead ends I finally found a chemical company called Univar located in Middletown PA, near Harrisburg. They are a great company to deal with. I was able to buy a 50# bag of technical grade beads for $54.86 including tax. I picked it up at their warehouse so there were no shipping costs. They are about an hour drive from me but even with gas and tolls the price is still below $1.50 per pound. (If I lived in Harrisburg it would be about $1.05 per pound).
Of course if you only need small quantities there are many good options including BB.
I just broke down my 50# bag over the weekend and packaged it in doubled ziplocs and then placed those in a sealed 5 gallon bucket (one that has a rubber gasket) to keep out air and moisture. I weighed and labeled each bag so I won't have to do it later when I make up my pre-mixed 50/50 lye solution.
I will also say that wrangling a 50# bag of lye is not for the faint of heart.

I took plenty of precautions... dust mask, goggles, thick clothing, and leather work gloves over top of rubber gloves. I worked outside with a bottle of vinegar and a garden hose nearby just in case. Still very cautious and a little nervous even with all that. I'm glad this will last me a few months!