Cold process soap doesn't have skin softening properties. Soap is a wash off product. It doesn't stay on the skin long enough. I cure my soaps on a baker's rack for 4 to 6 weeks. After that, the soap goes into large paper boxes. Handmade soap gets milder as it cures. Brand new soap will be very drying. I would wait for AT LEAST a couple of weeks before trying the soap.
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