Teach Soap

So I finally am gonna take a shot at some legitamit lotion making. I ordered up a lot of supplies after researching this on and off for several months. I do have a question about the conditioning emulsifier (inci behentrimonium methosulfate, cetyl alcohol, butylene glycol).

Is this used at the same rate as ewax? I use ewax in some VERY simple home lotions. Very simple. I'm attempting to make something much nicer. My first stab is at a body butter. I have a recipe written down that i formulated myself after much reading, but I purchased some other products to add into this recipe and am going to have to reformulate to try and add these new products into it. Is anyone willing to let me send them my recipe and help out some with this? Don't need anyone writing a recipe for me, just guide me from where I am at this point. Thanks