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Lye can be dangerous, but if you know what you're doing and are careful, it's not so dangerous. Mixed with many other chemicals & heat it can blow up a kitchen, but so can a lot of things.
You may be able to find organic oils in grocery stores/Sams Club/Costco closer to you. If you're going to start with small recipes it's usually more economic to shop local so you save on shipping. Also, you can check out
http://www.suppliersbystate.com to see if there's any soaping supplier near you.
I don't use stainless steel for mixing because a lot of them are some other metal covered in a stainless steel coating

Then after a while the coating breaks down and the lye reacts with the metal. I use thick plastic bowls or thick plastic buckets (like the ones that maple syrup tappers use). Around here you can go to the grocery store and ask for some of their empty buckets from the bakery section and they'll either give you one or charge you a dollar.
Wood and glass should not be used to mix or hold anything that has active lye in it. Lye breaks them down and you'll end up with wood splinters in your soap. With glass, even heavy pyrex, the lye can etch it and it can shatter.